University (Pt 2)

The thing I have to talk to my boyfriend about and get it off my chest is the fact that I'm leaving soon for university. He has known for years that I wanted to leave our hometown and never look back and he had known for years that I wanted to go to Laurentian in Sudbury or go to California and he also knew that I wanted to travel. I applied in November for universities and Laurentian accepted me and gave me a scholarship but now because me and him are dating he wants to come with me. He wants us to get a place together down there but his life is here in our hometown. His grandparents call him to help them when they need help and if he's in Sudbury you're looking at about over 6 hours maybe drive down there and a drive back. He has a job down here and he has a place to live if he comes with me he has to start his own life over. He would have to find a job down there but because of his record he won't be able to find a job, he'll have to find away to Sudbury and away back home when his grandparent's need him for stuff which takes money to go down there and to come back, and he'll need to find somewhere to stay and plus I'll be to busy with school to hang out and because I'll be the only person down there that he'll know then he'll want to hang out everyday. I leave the last week of August so I have to finish buying all my stuff that I need by then, my stepfather will have to take time out of work to drive my family down there, and the day before the actual move in date my family is taking me down to Sudbury for a graduation trip then the next day is move in day. That means I will have to get my dorm number, I have to find my dorm, carry everything to my dorm, unpack everything in my dorm and then all week from August 31st-September 4th is Frosh Week


Orientation August 29


August 31st

  • 9:00am-9:30am Registration & Welcome Canisius Hall
  • 9:30am-12:00pm Information Session
  • 12:00pm-1:30pm Welcome BBQ Lunch
  • 1:30pm-2:30pm Campus and Gym Tour With Student Volunteers


September 1st

  • 9:00am-12:00pm EAP Placement Test*
  • 10:00am-12:00pm Banking Shuttle
  • 2:00pm-3:00pm Banking Shuttle
  • 5:30pm-7:30pm Cruise On Ramsey Lake Departs Campus @ 5:30pm


September 2nd

  • 9:00am-12:00pm EAP Placement Test*
  • 10:00am-12:00pm Banking Shuttle
  • 2:00pm-4:00pm Banking Shuttle
  • 4:00pm-7:30 Cell Phone Activation & Shopping Shuttle


September 3rd

  • 9:00am-11:00am Academic Orientation J.N Desmarais Library
  • 1:00pm-3:00pm City Of Sudbury Bus Tour Departs @ 1:00pm
  • 3:00pm-7:00ppm "The Amazing Race" Downtown Sudbury


September 4th

  • 9:00am-11:30am Cell Phone Activation & Shopping Shuttle
  • 12:00pm-1:30pm LU President's Welcome BBQ For All Laurentian Students
  • 1:30pm-3:30pm Outdoor Fun Activity Location To Be Advised


That's just for Frosh week for everyone to get to know each other and to find our way around the school. I even promised a friend that I would hang out with her once I moved down there because I haven't seen her in such a long time. I have no way to pay for my schooling besides OSAP which means I have to get a job to start paying them back while I'm in school, I have to get a job so I can save money to come back home on certain days because on September 1st it's my uncles birthday, September 12th is my boyfriend's boyfriend, October 23 is my sisters birthday, November 16th is my other sisters birthday, December is when I have my Christmas break, March 1st is my Uncles wedding anniversary, March 5th is my Aunties birthday, then a few weeks later I have my march break which I am coming back here, then April 11th is my grandma's birthday and a few weeks after that I'm on summer vacation and then I go back to University in August. So I will be busy with school and work because at university you have different times for classes and if you have a job to you have to work around your class schedules so I'm going to be way to busy to even hang out with anyone. Plus with us being apart it could make the relationship better once I do come up. And honestly I feel like he doesn't trust me. He admitted to me that he's scared that once I leave that I will find someone better than him and leave him. If he doesn't allow me to go by myself and doesn't start having trust in me the relationship will never work out and I'm scared of telling him that I don't want him to come with me and explain why because I'm scared it's going to lead into a fight because I don't want him to think I don't see a future with him or that I don't want him in my life because he's been my best friend for such a long time and I don't know how he'll react to me saying that. If I do it on facebook I might feel more comfortable but then I'm scared how he'll react over facebook and how he'll react once we come face to face. And with the job I want to do I could be working with FBI's and the Cop's and that could mean traveling what he's going to pack everything up everytime I have to go somewhere for a job. I don't want that type of relationship. So how can I tell him without him getting mad, without getting his feelings hurt and try to get him to understand where I am coming from because like we can talk on the phone, we have facebook, we can video chat, we can hangout when I come back.

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